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4/9/2026

When your brain says: it's not working

There’s a moment that comes up for almost everyone pursuing their purpose.

Your brain starts pointing to your current circumstances and says:
“See? It’s not working.”

No clients/ customers yet.
Not enough income.
People showing interest but not buying.

And suddenly, it feels very hard to think:
“It’s working.”

Because your brain is building a case with “evidence.”

But there are two sides to this.

First, the practical side:

If you need money right now and your purpose isn’t yet producing the income you need, keep your job. Or have a part-time source of income.

There is nothing noble about putting yourself in financial desperation.

When you’re in survival mode, your brain shifts into its primitive state, fear, urgency, pressure.
And from that place you can’t access clear, strategic, and higher-level thinking.

This is why I guide my clients to transition into their purpose, not jump ship overnight.

Safety creates clarity.
Clarity creates results.

Second, the mindset side:

As you build, your job is to direct your brain on purpose.

Because your brain will say:
“They didn’t buy so it’s not working.”

But you have to see that:

They inquired.
They were curious.
They were paying attention.

That is movement.

That is evidence.

That is part of it working.

Results come from your thinking, and your thinking has to lead before the evidence shows up.

Your circumstances are neutral. It’s the meaning you give them that determines your results.

Going after your purpose is not a straight line.
It’s a process of learning, refining, and becoming.

So instead of asking:
“Is it working yet?”

Try asking:
“What is this teaching me?”

Because if you stay in it, it is working ⭐️

And when your purpose is rooted in something deeper, in service, in impact, in worship.

When you see it as your way of serving Allah (SWT) in this life, then the journey itself becomes meaningful.

And the destination is completely worth it.

If you’re in this space right now navigating doubt, purpose, and your next steps, I offer free consultations where we work through exactly what’s coming up for you and create a clear, grounded path forward.

Email [email protected] to book your free consultation call. 
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    Meha Siyam, Esq. 
    Life & Purpose Coach

    Focused on empowering Muslim women to live more fulfilled lives and become successful on their own terms. 

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